If you really want to challenge a marriage- buy a car together.
If you really want to challenge a marriage- have pets.
If you really want to challenge a marriage- buy a house.
If you really want to challenge a marriage- have a baby.
If you really really want to upset the world- do all these things and...
-have depression
-have anxiety
-have a suitcase full of past baggage {a few items my suitcase includes: abused as a child, prescription drug abuse, unladylike cursing, and having multiple opinions that I share when I shouldn't}
-have OCD
-have a dysfunctional childhood
The list could go on, believe me.
Well, all I can say is bring it on- cause I have done everything and then some as mentioned above. Am I a sucker for contention and punishment? Sometimes by golly I think I must thrive on it!!!
I really feel like everyone lies about marriage and having babies. If everyone knew how hard it all really was, no one would do it!!
I try to reflect on the lessons I should be learning from my situation. What does Heavenly Father want of me, and how best do I handle the trials that come my way?
I have faith in God's timing. I know we are meant to be having this sweet baby at this time, but that doesn't mean that he comes without challenge.
Not necessarily by choice, we have been married 8 years without any kids. There are so many benefits to have gone this long in establishing our relationship and household that will aid us in raising our family. However- no one tells you that there are drawbacks!
The older you get, the more set in your ways you become- ESPECIALLY men- so when big changes come- ones that bring a huge responsibility- there is a certain amount of fear and frustration.
I get it! But I didn't make this baby all by myself!!
Pregnancy is hard. I really don't actually like it- but in the end, I am so grateful for the miracle that Heavenly Father sent to me. I pray constantly that this baby is healthy and good.
I pray daily that I can have patience to deal with people- especially Dan.
Just when you think you have it all figured out- it being marriage, love, family- that you are a real pro, you get tossed a curve ball.
What makes it even better, is that there are tons of people out there ready to shed light and advice on every conceivable situation that you encounter. Annoying!!
My best friend Sheri is wise and said- Everyone is an expert at marriage and parenthood- but they are only an expert in their personal situation- not everyone else's.
1 comment:
You've pinned in right on the nose. Everything about marriage, and pregnancy. Yes, it's hard, and has it's challenges, but it would not be worth it unless we worked for it.
I also am not enjoying the pregnancy, but am VERY grateful for this blessing in my life.
You are going to be an INCREDIBLE mom Cherish, and you have a wonderful partner in Daniel. This child is going to be so blessed coming into your family!
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